When you have a bad break up with someone, it's very hard to imagine why you were with them in the first place. You question everything, from the moment you met, to the moment your relationship came to an end. Inevitably you wonder, why were you attracted to that person on day 1? What made that connection happen? It all starts with a look, right? Not really a love connection, but rather a "look" connection. But what happens when your love connection........disconnects? Do you still find yourself attracted to the same type of person, or does your type change? I think most people would agree that everyone has a "type". Whatever your type is, this is the person that tends to turn your head the most. But as you encounter different life experiences, you grow....and you change.....and your type may change to reflect that...... right? I personally, could never be with someone who reminded me of an ex. It just wouldn't make sense in my head....a